There is no way that you can build your skills beyond the level of intermediate without working against this natural urge within you.
The paradox is that you are born to build amazing skills but also built to avoid the frustration that comes with the process. Most people have no clue what they are up against and so they fail to win through.
Being conscious about what happens when you push for more will make you move beyond the intermediate level forever.
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